Do you feel like you are drowning?

So why don’t you matter?

This isn’t a comfortable question, but seriously.

There is an epidemic of women who put themselves last so that others can thrive.

This status quo is absolutely at our own expense. 

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Vulnerability Isn’t a Weakness

I used to think that ‘being vulnerable’ had a negative connotation.

For someone like me who had lived my entire life with a huge fear of failure, this word was so unappealing. I had a desire for people to see me as strong and competent, and vulnerability was a sign of weakness.

I was wrong.

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3 Reasons to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

Every six months I connect with a girlfriend who does similar work to me.  I value her as person, her perspectives and her experiences.

We last met in early January and talked mostly about the year to come.  Our projects, goals, anticipated revenues and last year’s as well.

As soon as she talked about money, I was hit with a wave of embarrassment. 

Over the next minute or so I have no idea what she said to me, I wasn’t listening.

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My Unexpected Lessons from Jay-Z

Jay-Z has inspired me.

This past weekend I started reading his book Decoded after Vishen Lakhiani, a thought leader I respect, Tweeted the recommendation.

Ironically, it’s been lying on my husband’s bed side table for months.  At some point I had even flipped through but came to the conclusion it wasn’t for me.

I was wrong.

It was exactly what I needed to read.

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